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will end up regretting your actions. If they are done
out of trying to release all the tension that has built up
inside you, then you are doing it for the wrong reasons,
and you could end up getting your feelings hurt, or
worse yet, catch some sexually transmitted disease.
Take your time and only make love when you have
found that special someone that loves you with all his
heart.
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Make sure this time around that you have
done your homework: Be sure that you don t let your
guard down, until you are comfortable with the next
guy that tells you all the things you want to hear.
Check him out. Ask tons of questions, so that you
don t end up being hurt again. Now, I amnot saying
that you should be so cautious that you close your heart
to a man that could be the love of your life. You can
start asking the right questions that will help you
determine if you are both compatible. I highly
recommend that you read Michael Webb s popular e-
book, 1000 Questions For Couples. These well-
designed questions are meant to help serious couples
discover quickly how their mate feels about very
important relationship issues.
Be open to loving again: When you are still
weighing your options with the men you are now
dating, bear in mind that men are still not perfect.
Don t start your journey into singlehood by setting
standards that most men will never meet. Be realistic
and keep an open mind. Most importantly, have fun
for a while. Love usually find those that are happy with
themselves - people see that and they want to meet
you. Sarah Paul s well-written e-book, titled, How To
Be Irresistible To Men will be a good guide to follow.
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You will learn 30 reasons why men reject women, and
what you can do about it, and most of all you will learn
a whole lot about what you can do now to have the
right kind of guys chasing after you.
How to Write Attention-Getting
Personal Ads
The ability to write an attention-getting personal
ad will determine how successful you will be in dating
and meeting interesting singles online.
Aside from your picture, what you say about
yourself and how you say it will determine how many
people find you interesting enough to contact. More
importantly, your profile is the single most important
thing that will determine whether you will meet the
kind of person you are looking for.
If you are unable to articulate who you are and
what you are looking for, chances are you will get
attention only from the person that isn t your right
match.
So what does a single nice lady do to make sure
that she gets this part right? Well, this is exactly what
you must do if you want to attract your Romeo.
First, bear in mind that your personal ad is really
an advertisement for you. Take the same approach you
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would take if you were advertising a product on
television, and you only had about one minute to tell
someone why he or she should buy what you are
selling. It is really that simple. With this in mind, you
want to be selective about your choice of words in
describing who you are and what you are looking for.
Before you even start writing your ad, you want to
make sure you adhere to the rules listed below.
Rules about writing personal ads
v� �
Honesty  The information you share about
yourself must be true.
v� �
Never use your personal contact information - your
name or phone number.
v� � not use erotic language.
Do
v� �
Always check your grammar and spelling twice -
nobody wants to date anyone who can t write.
Write complete sentences instead of something like,
 SWF looking 4 SWM for fun . This kind of ad
will not get anyone s attention.
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v� �
Never use your ad to convey the negative
experience you had in your last relationship.
v� �
Always clearly communicate one of your biggest pet
peeves. For example, if you are not attracted to
smokers or couch potatoes, make sure you
diplomatically make that clear when describing the
man you want to date.
v� � one or two of your most recent digital photos.
Post
Don t post a picture of yourself at 120 pounds, if
you currently weigh far more than that. No
deception of any sort, otherwise you heart will be
broken. No matter what you look like, it is best
that people are attracted to you just the way you are.
v� � matter what your situation is, never come across
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